Frequently Asked Questions

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What is Family Mediation?

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Family Mediation is a way of resolving difficulties through joint meetings with the help of a trained impartial person. It creates an opportunity to sort out practical family arrangements, particularly during separation or divorce.

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What about the mediators?

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All our mediators are trained by National Family Mediation, are full members of the UK College of Family Mediators.

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Who can use Family Mediation?

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Any family member. It does not matter whether you are married or not, have children or do not, are in a same sex relationship. Other family members may use mediation to arrange how to keep in touch with children.

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Can children be involved?

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Indirectly children are involved in most mediations, where their views and likely effects upon them are expressed by their parents. They can also be seen by mediators trained in ‘direct consultation’ with children. Many safeguards are built in before a mediator will agree to direct consultation.

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Does Family Mediation really work?

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Yes it does! For it to work well it needs your willingness to take part, neither pressured by the other person nor exerting unfair pressure yourself. You must be willing to share all relevant information. If you can both do this, with the help of the mediator, you are very likely to reach agreement.

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How much does Family Mediation cost?

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The initial intake sessions are free but there is a charge for the mediation and any follow up sessions.

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Do I still need a lawyer?

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That is for you to decide [mediators never take decisions for you!] However, there are considerable advantages in having you own legal adviser who can protect your individual interests.